When condolence, we should choose the form of condolence as appropriate(wei wen shi yao zhuo qing xuan ze wei wen xing shi )

We should choose different forms of consolation according to different objects. When choosing a specific type and form of sympathy, we should consider the following three factors before making a decision.

(1) The main reason for condolence: why should we offer condolence to the object of condolence, which has a great relationship with the choice of the type and form of condolence.

(2) The relationship between the two sides of sympathy: the specific types and forms of sympathy must be adapted to the current situation of the relationship between the two sides. If you overdo it, you will be suspicious; if you don't do it properly, you will be impolite.

(3) Operability of consolation: theoretically appropriate types and forms of consolation must be feasible in practical use. We should be flexible in response to local conditions and different people.

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