Give gifts after weighing benefits(quan heng li yi de shi zai song li )

It's good to ask for gifts, but it's appropriate to give gifts. Everyone should have a balance in mind. The degree of gift giving is closely related to the relationship between the other party, the purpose of gift giving and the identity of the recipient.

Some people give gifts to ask for help, so the weight of the gift is related to the size of the work. If the gift is too small, it will be difficult to accomplish; if the gift is too rich, the recipient may refuse to accept it under pressure, and it will be even more difficult to accomplish.

"How much to give" is a general concept. In terms of the quantity, size and price of gifts, gift giving is still standard.

In general social occasions, gifts should be small, small and light. Less means not to ask for more quantity, but to ask for less but better; small means not to be too big, small and exquisite, easy to send and easy to save; light means moderate price, not to ask for expensive. The general principle is to pay full attention to the spiritual value and commemorative significance of gifts.

For the sake of face, we usually feel that very few things are not good enough. If we want to give them, we have to give them more. They are genuine. Send fruit to weigh it 10 jin, supermarket goods, wish to move all.

Although a lot of money has been spent, the effect may not be good. Especially when you meet for the first time, you mention so many gifts all of a sudden. People think you have some ulterior motives! Who dares to accept it? If the host refuses to accept it, you will be in an awkward situation. It's not right to take it away. It's not right not to take it away. So you push me to let me go. Finally, it's you who are difficult to step down.

Ten thousand steps back, even if the host accepts the gift, I'm sure the boss is not happy: you give me so many gifts this time, and I'll pay them back next time. You think it's good intentions, but people feel pressure.

As a matter of fact, there are not too many gifts. As long as they are exquisite, beautiful and creative, they will be welcomed.

It is worth noting that even if you are eager to ask for help, the gift should be consistent with your financial strength. If people with poor economic conditions give the other party more valuable gifts, it will make the other party uneasy; while people with better economic conditions give cheaper gifts, it will make the recipient feel stingy or look down on him.

Therefore, when you give gifts, you must distinguish between the heavy and the heavy, weigh the benefits and then give them out, so as to achieve your maximum benefits.

Chinese PinYin : Quan Heng Li Yi De Shi Zai Song Li