Emphasize what you have in common with each other(qiang diao yu dui fang de gong tong dian )

"Where do you live Oh, I used to go to that place. Is there a cigarette store nearby Like this, in order to shorten the distance with each other, as long as it is a topic that can shorten the distance between each other, even if it is subtle, it should be emphasized. Because once people have something in common, they can quickly eliminate the sense of strangeness between each other, resulting in a sense of closeness. This can not only make the other party feel relaxed, but also make the other party say the truth. In fact, we all have the same psychology. For example, once two strangers find out that they have studied in the same primary school, they will immediately feel like "their own people" and get together.

As a result, when communicating with people, finding some common ground and emphasizing it often leads to unexpected results.

Chinese PinYin : Qiang Diao Yu Dui Fang De Gong Tong Dian