How to overcome self pride(ru he ke fu zi ao xin li )

In interpersonal communication, there are people who are egotistical and "Lao Tzu is the best in the world", who are arrogant, despise others, even belittle others, laugh at others, and do not listen to others' opinions. This kind of psychology does great harm to communication, and these people are difficult to get along with others.

Proud people like to overestimate themselves, only care about their own needs, emphasize their feelings. They are usually arrogant, boastful and domineering in their communication. When they are happy, they dance and talk incessantly. When they are not happy, they will lose their temper indiscriminately. They don't consider the feelings of others at all, and they don't want to associate with people who think they are inferior to themselves. They also tend to overestimate the degree of intimacy with others. Sometimes they are too intimate with others and say something they shouldn't say, which will cause others' disgust. In addition, it is interesting that once the self proud people suffer setbacks, they often become self abased.

The root of pride is wrong self-evaluation. Of course, it is also closely related to its growing environment.

To overcome self pride, we should first learn to respect others and be good at discovering the advantages of others, so as to make an objective evaluation of ourselves. In addition, we should learn to be strict with ourselves and lenient with others.

Chinese PinYin : Ru He Ke Fu Zi Ao Xin Li