Don't be self-centered in conversation(bu yao zai jiao tan zhong yi zi wo wei zhong xin )

When you visit a sick friend, remember that you are there to help and show concern. Therefore, we should pay more attention to the feelings of others, rather than self-centered.

Don't borrow your friend's misfortune to quote your own similar experience. You can say "I've had this kind of thing before" or "I can understand your current mood.". Everyone has his own way of dealing with tribulations, so don't impose your own attitude on a friend who may not be as emotional as you.

Chinese PinYin : Bu Yao Zai Jiao Tan Zhong Yi Zi Wo Wei Zhong Xin