Hu Ping
Hu Ping
Hu Ping, graduated from Chongqing Medical University, is an expert in children's sexual psychological development and sex education.
Personal profile
Hu Ping, an independent researcher. He graduated from the Department of Pediatrics of Chongqing Medical University in 1986 and has been a pediatrician and lecturer in pediatrics. In 2001, we began to study children's sexual health education and children's sexual psychological development. In 2004, more than 50 cities in China began to carry out sexual health education. She has cooperated with CCTV, Sichuan TV, sina.com, cradle.com, phoenix.com, netease.com, Shenzhen radio and Shanxi Radio to record children's sexual health education programs.
For more than ten years, Hu Ping has been persisting in the research on the development of children's and adolescents' sexual psychology and health education, especially in the field of children's sexual psychology from 0 to 6 years old. Hu Ping, with a scientific and rigorous attitude, benevolent and kind-hearted enthusiasm, withstood all kinds of pressures such as misunderstanding, ridicule and cold treatment, and constantly appealed with her own efforts. She respected the law of children's life development and was good at understanding virginity. Starting from young children, she laid a solid foundation for their happiness and happiness.
Main works
Books for parents:
Understanding virginity 2: sexual development and sex education for children aged 6-13
Misunderstanding of love: Reflection on education in movies
Talk about sex with your child
books for children:
Growth and sex
Lecture experience
Once, after Hu Ping finished her lecture, she didn't ask her usual questions. The person in charge of parenting weekly, the organizer, said that because many of the questions were private, most parents didn't want to discuss them in public, so there was no such link. But I can see that the monks are very excited and have a lot of questions to ask. They surround Hu Ping on three inner floors and three outer floors. A parent said that her daughter likes to lie down and rub the quilt when she takes a nap in the kindergarten. Neither the teacher nor the parents know what to do. The teacher said that if she can't do it again, she will let her take the child home and come back when the child is not used to it. Hu Ping said, that's no good. How much harm does it do to children? I just said that these are normal phenomena of children's sexual development. There's nothing to make a fuss about. You can also buy my book "good understanding of virginity" for the teacher. Hu Ping's research on children's sex education began in 2001. For more than ten years, she has publicized and promoted her research results on children's sexual health through writing books, setting up sexual health education classes for parents and children, holding lectures, building studios, using media and Internet, etc., and has traveled in more than 20 cities across the country. Li yue'er, founder of China Ba School Park and Hu Ping's collaborator and good friend for many years, said that she had noticed this field for a long time, but she did not dare to go deep, because it was very deep and specialized. In a country like China that talked about sex, it was also about children's sex, so she might be shot to death. Hu Ping is one of the experts she knows who are engaged in this field The most in-depth, practical and reliable person. one parent said after the lecture that her son had been holding his urine when he was two years old. He didn't go to the bathroom even when he was holding his urine, and finally he peed in his pants. Because I've seen "good understanding of virginity", I'll deal with it according to the above method, and this problem will be solved in a week. She said that many years ago, she saw an article by Hu Ping in a humble place on the Internet and was deeply inspired. Then she found Hu Ping and established a connection. Hu Ping said that there is only one wish for us to let more people know about sexual health. We may be hurt by ignorance, so don't let the next generation become such victims again.
People grow up in a planned way, including sex
Hu Ping's research on the sexual psychology of children aged 0 to 6 has been more and more widely recognized and concerned. But before that, when it comes to adolescent sexual psychology, it seems that it is no longer a problem. However, the sexual development of young children and the resulting sexual behavior and psychological problems have not been paid attention to or even ignored. Most people think that young children have sexual feelings? If so, it's just a bad habit of a few people. Through a long period of research and practice, Hu Ping came to the scientific conclusion that it would be too late to talk about children's sex in adolescence. people grow up in a planned way. For example, children don't grow teeth when they are born, and parents don't worry because they know that they will start to grow in about six months, and then change their teeth until they are 12 years old. This is the dental development plan. There are also language development plans, walking development plans, so sex also has such a development plan. This development plan is formed in the gene, you can't change it. After the life development plan is launched, there will be some natural manifestations, such as he is lying on the bed rubbing, or rubbing with the corner of the stool and table. These are the laws of natural development. You can't press it down if you want to. The development of sex will go through a process of germination, branching, flowering and fruiting. Sex education for parents aged 0 to 6 is mainly to understand the law of children's sexual development, the psychology behind it, and how we should deal with it. At puberty, when children are in high school, their sexual development has undergone germination, branching, flowering and fruiting, which means that children's sexual values and sexual communication skills have been basically formed. Therefore, some people say that it is not necessary to do sex education for older children. I say that it has been formed, just like a house has been built. If it is not built well, it is crooked. To rebuild, it is very difficult to demolish the house, clean up the garbage and rebuild it. We have to start from the moment we have just laid the foundation and established our sexual values. If you are 13 years old and have a personality message, you can judge whether it is good or bad, whether it is accepted or rejected, that's basically right. Just as we expect our children to study well, be healthy and find a good job, we also hope that their physical functions can be normal, have healthy sexual physiology, have sexual values in line with the mainstream society, and have healthy sexual communication skills. sexual development is parallel to the development of other bodies. It's not about puberty, when menstruation comes. In the mother's body, when the fetus forms the eyes, nose, ears, heart and other organs, the genitals are also forming, and the nerves that control the genitals are also forming. So some parents say that their children begin to touch their genitals when they are one year old. Is it precocious puberty? In fact, they started at the time of the fetus. Female fetuses also have this behavior, as well as finger eating. Every physical development has such a period of infancy. For example, changing teeth is ugly. Parents will not feel embarrassed because they know it is a process, but as long as children have sexual behavior, they will be very nervous and anxious. Ignorance will panic, understand, you will be very calm.
The story of Hu Ping
At the end of the lecture, Hu Ping seemed calm, but in fact, her heart was mixed. In a word, Hu Ping's process of children's sex education started in Chengdu, but ended in a dismal retreat.
Once withdrawn from Chengdu
Hu Ping, a native of Dujiangyan, graduated from the Department of Pediatrics of Chongqing Medical University in 1986. After graduation, she was assigned to a hospital in Kunming as a doctor. Later, she went to work as a lecturer in pediatrics. What happened at this time stimulated Hu Ping - a 17-year-old girl in her class had an abortion in a small clinic after she became pregnant, bleeding heavily and died on the operating table. Hu Ping couldn't figure out why she didn't turn to her parents for help? Don't ask the teacher for help? She is still a medical student. Why not protect herself? Why go to a small clinic? These problems tormented her and she wanted to find out. She recalled her experience as a mother and her embarrassment in the face of her son's questions about how he was born. Hu Ping knows that Chinese people's knowledge of sex is as poor as a wasteland. Later, she resigned and came to Chengdu. Her son entered the primary school affiliated to Chengdu Foreign Language School, and she worked as a school doctor in the school. In the process of getting along with the students, she once again felt the lack of sex education in children's growth and the harm it brought. With the support of the principal at that time, she began to offer sex education classes. Hu Ping clearly remembers the first class. She wrote the content on the paper, but when she started, the content she prepared could not go on, and the next time was filled with students' questions one by one. Hu Ping felt that the children had been thinking about these problems for a long time. Because there was no one and no place to communicate, the children were full of words and wanted to ask and say. The children's needs stimulated Hu Ping's research. On the one hand, she read books and went to West China Medical University to study psychology. the study lasted four years through learning and getting along with students. In 2004, her growth and sex was published by Science Press, and the media began to pay attention to and report on it. Hu Ping's system of sexual health education for primary school students has basically formed. at the same time, the criticism continued, "is it necessary for primary school students to start sex education? Is it too early?" Both the parents and the teachers talked about it, and the headmaster who supported her couldn't stand it. He gave her a choice. If she wanted to stay, she could no longer engage in sex education, or she would have to leave. Hu Ping chose to leave. The price of leaving is huge. At the beginning of the contract, not only can my son go to middle school free of charge, but also she was given a house of more than 100 square meters, on the condition that she would stay in school for a certain period of time, and the property right of the house would be transferred to Hu Ping's name. Hu Ping resigned and rented out. She told the headmaster that when she came here, she didn't know that there were such benefits, but she came back to the original point. Fortunately, his son was admitted to the affiliated middle school.
The opening of parents today is gratifying
just when everyone thought Hu Ping was crazy, she got a blessing in disguise. Li Yueer, the founder of the Chinese school, was invited to share the same ideas
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