climax

orgasm

Orgasm refers to the physical and psychological response to sexual pleasure after sexual stimulation. There are usually ejaculation, blushing, convulsions and other physiological manifestations. Both men and women can have an orgasm. As long as there is sexual stimulation, there may be. For example, masturbation, caressing some parts of the body, especially the sexy belt, can increase the stimulation through some sexy pictures, movies, articles, items, etc. < DL > < DT > how does female climax come about

classification

Male orgasm

Men's orgasm mostly to ejaculate performance, ejaculation time is very short, only about 3 to 10 seconds. After ejaculation is also the end of orgasm, at this time the penis will gradually out of the erectile state. It's called a weak period. According to the investigation report of Dr. hartore, a sexologist, about 17% of men's orgasm is manifested by anal contraction alone, and the contraction time can be slightly longer than the ejaculation time, about 1 to 2 minutes. After the climax, the anus will gradually relax.

Orgasm is often achieved by rubbing the nipple or touching the penis. Male orgasm is also related to prostate stimulation, so the prostate is also called male G-spot in recent years. After ejaculation is also the end of orgasm, at this time the penis will gradually out of the erectile state. When men receive prostate massage or anal intercourse, with certain sexual psychology, they can trigger orgasm, that is, the so-called prostate pleasure, and can also trigger ejaculation without erection.

No ejaculatory orgasm

Male orgasm is not produced by ejaculation: some people have multiple sexual intercourse in a day, and the last sexual intercourse is usually with pleasure without ejaculation. The reason why there is pleasure is that the contraction of gonadal organs and pelvic floor muscles occurs as usual, while the absence of semen ejaculation is due to the fact that the stored semen has been ejaculated after repeated sexual intercourse, so there is pleasure and ejaculation without semen discharge. Don't make ejaculation the ultimate goal.

1. Make sure that orgasm is not the same thing as ejaculation. Adult men can ejaculate without sexual activity and orgasm, and those who do not ejaculate can also experience orgasm. Although modern medicine has proved that forced ejaculation is not conducive to health, but for premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, vas deferens obstruction and other special groups, this theory has become the driving force for them to summon up the courage to have sex. For example, for men with premature ejaculation, if you can properly control the ejaculation time, you can increase the pleasure of the sexual plateau period, and ultimately increase the intensity of orgasm.

2. The closer the relationship is, the easier it is for men to have sexual pleasure, and men can have multiple orgasms. Most men think that the process of their orgasm is linear, so in the process of sex, they are more concerned about how to control their behavior, so that their wives can have multiple orgasms. However, experts found in the study, precisely because orgasm and ejaculation do not coincide completely, so men can also get multiple orgasms.

The key point for men to achieve multiple orgasms is not to focus on ejaculation. Through continuous training in the process of sexual intercourse, they can find the critical point before ejaculation, and stop sexual stimulation when they have obvious pleasure and do not reach the ejaculation threshold. If they ejaculate again and again, they will get several orgasms without ejaculation and one orgasm with ejaculation.

3. Slow down and breathe deeply. Many couples know how to caress each other to achieve orgasm. If you want to have an unexpected surprise in bed and improve the pleasure before climax, the method is very simple: make love as before, but this time consciously slow down, with a few times more time slowly experience.

Holding your breath can enhance muscle tension and strength. Unlike heartbeat and blood pressure, the respiratory system is the only physiological system that can be artificially controlled while being affected by sex. Deep breathing can promote blood flow to sexual organs and increase the strength of orgasm.

Female orgasm

Women's orgasm is the same as men's, women are always stimulated by clitoris, while men are constantly stimulated by glans. There are usually several physiological aspects of the performance: female clitoris bulge prominent, with the climax beat.

The female vaginal sphincter contracts intermittently.

Female vaginal secretions increased.

Women will shout or groan unconsciously, also known as bed call.

After the climax, women don't disappear from the climax immediately like men, and they are often still intoxicated in it, which is called "afterrhyme". Some women will have the phenomenon of muscle paralysis after climax, which may make women feel soft legs temporarily.

Some women will be full of energy after orgasm, and their skin is very ruddy.

Some women will experience a large amount of secretions during orgasm, which is called female tidal blow. These body fluids mainly come from the skorn gland. Some sexologists say that only 25 to 30 out of 100 women have this experience.

Two manifestations of female orgasm

In recent twenty or thirty years, the research of female orgasm shows that female orgasm is not only vaginal orgasm. They can have sex in another way.

Freud once divided female orgasm into clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm. The latest foreign statistics show that 50% of women can get real pleasure through clitoral stimulation, and women can clearly describe the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasm. For example, they describe clitoral orgasm as "warm, itchy, electric and sharp"; vaginal orgasm is "deep, throbbing, soothing and comfortable.". When describing orgasm, many women mentioned that the feeling of penis filling and empty in vagina is completely different.

In sexual life, if you don't feel sexual pleasure through vaginal stimulation, clitoral stimulation is more important for women. With a correct understanding of female orgasm, we can better coordinate the sexual life of both husband and wife, so as to achieve the happiness and happiness of marriage.

The relationship between male ejaculation and female orgasm

In real life, most women do arouse excitement due to the influx of semen, which cannot be explained physically, but is related to sexual psychology.

We know that human sexual behavior includes sexual physiology and sexual psychology. From the perspective of sexual physiology, ejaculation has little effect on female orgasm. Because in the process of sexual intercourse, there is no pleasure in the middle and deep part of the vagina, because only the part of the vagina close to the vaginal orifice is connected with the clitoris, and stimulation of this part will produce a certain degree of pleasure.

concept

Orgasm refers to the physical and psychological response to sexual pleasure after sexual stimulation. There are usually ejaculation, blushing, convulsions and other physiological manifestations.

time

Urologists say men's orgasms last only 2.5 seconds, Singapore's Sing Tao Daily reported. In this way, men can enjoy an orgasm of 2 hours 53 minutes 20 seconds in their lifetime if they have sex twice a week for 40 years. And women have shorter orgasms than that.

"The reality is worse," he said The survey shows that couples have regular and frequent sex only in two or three years after marriage. With the birth of a child, all kinds of physical contact will gradually decrease. Many couples in their 40s and 50s don't even have kisses and hugs.

If you want to increase your orgasm time, you might as well cultivate more feelings with your partner, and don't let your sexual desire disappear so early.

performance

Men and women are similar

After being sexually stimulated, the genitals of both men and women will also have blood vessel congestion; blood rushes into the organs, causing them to expand; the skin turns red, the heart beats, the breathing gets worse, and the muscles contract regularly about eight times per second. The first few contractions are the most intense, and the next few may be irregular and less intense. The pattern of brain waves will change a lot, the state of perception will change, climax makes people lose their mind.

It is generally believed that men's climax is rapid, violent and explosive, while women feel waves all over their body.

When describing the feeling of climax, both men and women wrote about the increase of mental tension, the heart began to beat very rapidly, the "whole body's extreme excitement", the increasing rhythm and burst of shaking in the body, and the warmth and tranquility. And both men and women have become very poetic: "climax feels like heaven in a hot hell"; "climax is like sweating and harassing for a few hours before jumping into a cool swimming pool"; "climax is like dumping garbage in a vast open green field on a sunny day".

Differences

1: Characteristics of male sexual desire

It is easy to be stimulated, leading to sexual impulse. Generally, the golden age is from 20 to 40 years old, and then it is in the period of gradual decline of sexual ability. But because of personal health problems, they can prolong their golden age.

2: Characteristics of female sexual desire

More emphasis on psychological stimulation, sexual desire is generally less obvious and direct than men, 35 years old for the golden age, sexual desire. Therefore, there is a certain scientific basis for a 40 year old woman to be a wolf.

reaction

Orgasm is a natural physical and mental reaction of human beings, but it also has internal levels.

First of all, orgasm depends on sexual behavior, in the couple's sexual life, to achieve sexual intercourse is likely to have orgasm. Therefore, the first level or the least level of orgasm is its possibility.

Secondly, the realization of sexual intercourse, orgasm is not inevitable. Therefore, whether it can reach the objective existence of orgasm is its second level.

According to maaster and Johnson's research, for men, their orgasm experience is concentrated in the heart, and they feel that muscles develop in the penis, prostate and seminal vesicle

Chinese PinYin : Gao Chao