male confidante

male confidante

It is derived from beauty. Words are widely used on the Internet. They usually refer to women's address to men's confidants. They can also refer to men's address to men's confidants. Generally speaking, it refers to a male confidant who is closer than a friend, farther than a lover and purer than a lover. Because of the particularity of men and women, it is known as a kind of "the fourth kind of feelings" apart from family, love and friendship.

Bilingual vocabulary

Confidant

It can be a general term, regardless of the same sex or the opposite sex. As the name suggests, a confidant is a person who understands and knows himself. If a confidant can win his recognition, he will get more trust than others, and even more important than family affection under certain conditions.

LAN Yan's explanation

The "fourth emotion" exists in the family, friendship and love, which is the most stable warmth, close but pure. This kind of lover is not full of state, let a person more relaxed. Many topics and emotions that can't be shared with lovers can be deeply communicated with Lanyan. In front of Lanyan, you can be presumptuous, coquettish, not pay attention to the image, and be yourself.

The connotation of blue face

Of course, a woman's blue confidant is sometimes ambiguous: it is pure, in fact, it will never be so pure that there is no physical contact; it can be that there is no sexual relationship, but it will never be that there is no touch of fingers; because of the initial contact of the body, it will produce ambiguous emotions between two people, even those who have never met, it is necessary However, in the phone, the computer dig each other's heart and lungs to tell each other's stories. The meaning of confidant is to let the other party know themselves thoroughly.

The scope of blue face

A woman's blue confidant may be a boy who used to fight with her. Sometimes "fighting" is out of line, but girls still look at it very open. It can't be said that they don't care about "fighting", but sometimes girls have no objection because they don't want to make boys unhappy. This kind of blue confidant may make their blue confidant relationship last forever.

A blue confidant is a man who is below her husband and boyfriend and above other male friends. A woman can tell a man any topic that she can't talk to her husband or boyfriend, or she can cry about her husband's grievances. Because she is a confidant, she will pity you, speak for you from your point of view, give you a warm hug when you are hurt, and give you a hug without any passion.

Blue confidant, it is really understand women's psychology, understand women's feelings of men, will not always be a woman's every joy and sorrow and worry about, but will meet for her every tear and heartache, will be happy for her every smile, it is in the woman injured Weiqu when the first time think of that person. Women always have a lot of words that they can't tell the men around them or their closest boyfriends, so they are looking for a man who can care about her and love her but won't let her torture themselves to think about love and hate.

A blue confidant can be said to be a brother or a sister. It's also a relationship in which the other party doesn't regard himself as a woman and doesn't regard him as a man. In fact, the more he repeats, the more worried he is that he will take that step. A confidant is a very dangerous relationship. If you take a step forward, you will slip and derail. There are many reasons why a man is good to a woman, except to get her heart and her body. There is simply because of love for a person and regardless of the return and consequences of a good person. And the purpose of women's good for men is nothing more than this, only the desire to get the body is less than the desire to get the heart. Women care more about the heart. Getting a man's heart makes women more proud than getting his body. But what men care about is the body. Getting more women's body is more worth showing off than getting more women's heart. Getting too many hearts will only bring burden to men. If a woman wants to tie the heart of a blue confidant for a lifetime, she must not let the other party get her own body for a lifetime, but also keep her status in his heart unchanged. Only when she pays will she be rewarded, and your care will naturally get the other party's care. If there is no careful and meticulous care, how can a man be willing to be your confidant for life? If you want others to care about you and love you, only you can tell others the secret and grievance in your heart.

relationship

But the friendship between people will not be reciprocated. We all have more or less friends, but we will always want to have a close male friend to accompany us or live in our hearts. No one should escape, and do not think that they are in love with each other, it is not love, it is just dependence. When you start to rely on a person, naturally he has the charm to make you sincere, you should be careful, don't fall into it, blue confidant, is the most easy to let a woman cheat on the object, really can be the most intimate confidant of men and women in life, is very few, it depends on how men and women control themselves. When it comes to control, we need to measure the degree of getting along with our confidants. Women should understand the difference between confidants and lovers. Confidants can speak from their heart, but they can't warm each other. The only way to warm their hearts is to warm their hearts. They can't be warmed by their bodies. Once they are warmed by their bodies, their confidants will face two results, either lose or upgrade to lovers.

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