Help others, but stick to principles(zhu ren wei le dan yao jian chi yuan ze )

"One fence, three piles, one hero, three gangs.". People need help, especially in difficult times. If you stand by when a friend is in trouble, what friendship is there?

Help others, sometimes at the expense of some of their own interests, please do not be stingy, that is the price of friendship. The help of our friends will be remembered. This has always been the case. Of course, our help to others should never be based on the expectation of his return. We should remember the benefits of others and forget the help we have given others.

Perhaps, our friend will put forward some difficult problems that put us in a dilemma. At this time, you should make things clear first. If his request is reasonable and legitimate, you should do your best. If you really can't think of it, and helping him will violate the principle and do harm to others, you can gently persuade him to get his understanding. When we have to, it is also necessary to "forgive and obey orders". One thing we should pay attention to when we refuse other people's demands is that we should never emphasize our own moral or behavioral standards and flaunt our selfless, honest and principled qualities, which will make the other party feel embarrassed or even feel inferior. It is enough to explain that his wish cannot be satisfied. If necessary, point out the situation that is not beneficial to the other party or only harmful to the other party with a sincere attitude.

Chinese PinYin : Zhu Ren Wei Le Dan Yao Jian Chi Yuan Ze