"Love" for children needs to pay attention to methods(dui hai zi de ai xu yao jiang jiu fang fa )

Every parent hopes his "son Jackie Chan and daughter Jackie Fung". They give their children their whole heart love. They think about everything for their children, and they want to do everything for them. Just as some mothers said, "my heart is on my children, so we can say that everything I do now is for them. As long as my children are promising in the future, no matter how hard or tired, I am willing to do it 。” However, parents don't know that sometimes too much love is a burden to their children, which will make them suffocate. In order to get rid of this love, children may lose their temper with their parents for no reason, or try to avoid the love given by their parents. Moreover, this kind of unrestrained love is also a restriction on children's growth space, which will obviously stifle the development of children's independent personality. In a word, love can suffocate children.

Therefore, "love" needs to pay attention to methods. To love rationally, the most important thing is to respect children, give them independent space, and guide them to grow up in love. It also helps to reduce the distance from the child.

One mother expressed a new understanding and greater love of modern parents for her children. She said, "I'm very glad that we have such a good opportunity to communicate today. In fact, my child, my mother is willing to be your friend. You can go into your own world. My mother doesn't object. When you are sleepy or tired, you can come home to have a rest. When you are injured, you can come back at any time. Please believe that no matter what mistakes you make, my mother will always love you. Home is always your safe haven, and my mother will always be the one who loves you most. "

If every parent can treat and care for their children with such a mind, will the rebellious mentality of children and the generation gap conflict between the two generations still exist?

Chinese PinYin : Dui Hai Zi De Ai Xu Yao Jiang Jiu Fang Fa