When you can't find a topic, you may as well state your feelings frankly(zhao bu dao hua ti shi bu fang tan bai shuo ming ni de gan shou )

For example, you might say to yourself at a dinner party, "I'm too shy to fit into this kind of party. Or on the contrary, you think many people hate this kind of party, but I love it

No matter what you think, you should tell your feelings to the first person who seems willing to listen. This person may be your confidant. In any case, it's better to be frank about "I'm shy" or "I don't know anyone here" than to be reserved and indifferent.

The most talkative person is the one who has the courage to confess. This also has an advantage, if you can be frank with each other, the other side will also freely confide in you.

Chinese PinYin : Zhao Bu Dao Hua Ti Shi Bu Fang Tan Bai Shuo Ming Ni De Gan Shou