It's not good to have a small stomach(xiao du ji chang yao bu de )

Everyone has jealousy. As far as the general Chinese people are concerned, they always want everyone to be similar to each other, he is good or I am good, otherwise they will be "shot in the head". And this sentence also means that those who excel in their daily work because of their special talents or special contributions are often the object of envy. The ancients said that "the wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it". Therefore, if anyone is outstanding in any aspect, he will often be attacked by people. What's more, because of the heavy jealousy, he may trap you and make you live under an invisible pressure. There are obstacles everywhere and all the time, which will make you unable to do well. It can be said that jealousy is a very harmful psychology in the world, it can make the jealous form a very ugly mentality, make the jealous go to a narrow road of life, and also make the envied suffer great harm.

In daily life and work, jealousy is everywhere. Jealousy takes many forms. Among friends, colleagues, classmates, and even brothers and sisters, there will be jealousy. Because each person's social background and family environment are different, the evaluation of society and others will be different accordingly. When people work and live together, they naturally have to compare with each other. Jealousy means that through comparison, they can see the excellence and success of others. As a result, they are envious, distressed and miserable. As a result, they hate the superiority of other people's talents, status and reputation over themselves, and they have a small stomach.

Chinese PinYin : Xiao Du Ji Chang Yao Bu De