Not only from the emotional performance of personal likes and dislikes, but also take out sufficient evidence to prove the performance and talent of one party, let the other party be convinced.
A leader's emphasis on a subordinate is of course his real ability and learning, but this does not mean that his subordinates also think so. Especially some subordinates who are self-confident or jealous often think that the leader is reusing the subordinate because of some "complex" personal likes and dislikes for some reason, so they do not cooperate in their work, which leads to all kinds of disputes. In this case, if you are a leader, you should try your best to avoid showing your emotional likes and dislikes (though such likes and dislikes are inevitable and natural), and should come up with tangible evidence to prove the performance and talent of the person being reused, so that the disputants can be convinced and have nothing to say in front of the facts.
At the end of Jian'an period, Cao Cao and Sun Quan withdrew from the army after fighting with ruxu. Sun Quan left Zhou Tai, the general of Pinglu, as the commander of ruxu. At that time, Zhu ran and Xu Sheng, who were under the command of Zhou Tai, were all famous families in Jiangdong. They were very unconvinced that this man from a poor family came to command themselves. Sun Quan learned that, in the name of inspection, he came to ruxu and invited the generals to a banquet. During the dinner, he let Zhou Tai show his scars while everyone was drunk. Sun Quan pointed to one place and asked another. Zhou Tai answered one by one in which battle he had left behind. At last, Sun Quan took him by the hand and said with tears, "you are as brave as a tiger or a leopard in the face of war. How can I not treat you like a brother and entrust you with the important task?"
Since then, Zhu ran, Xu Sheng and other talents have been obedient to Zhou Tai.
In this case, Sun Quan skillfully used the method of "showing one's ability" to resolve the dispute. Instead of criticizing Zhu ran, Xu Sheng and others for disobeying orders, he let Zhou Tai show his scars at an appropriate time to show that he valued Zhou Tai for this. In the face of Zhou Tai's bravery and achievements, Zhu, Xu and others could not help but be convinced, and the dispute between the generals was resolved.
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