See the flatterer's compliment(kan qing ba jie zhe de gong wei )

No one doesn't like to hear praise from others, whether it's oral or written, and no matter who the compliment comes from, even if it's uttered by a mortal person, it makes you feel excited. But when you get praise from others, don't forget yourself and lose your way. You should carefully observe their motives and be careful that they have ulterior motives for you.

Some people with the tone of flattery, try their best to flatter, want to use saliva to dry, praise is endless, pay attention to, flatterers appear!

For example, one day, a colleague is very convinced of you and gives you a high hat in public, claiming: "in our company, only you are qualified for this job. As expected, you have done a great job Or say: "you really have the ability. No matter what you do, people inside and outside like to cooperate with you. If you leave it to others, there will not be such a good result."

These compliments keep flying to you. At this time, you should not be too happy. You might as well say publicly, "you flatter me. You can do it well. I'm not much different from you." Or tell him in private: "thank you for your praise, but I don't like it very much. Please don't praise me in public in the future."

In the face of the flatterer's verbal offensive, as long as you are calm, careful analysis, and not dazzled by praise, he will not pose a threat to you.

Chinese PinYin : Kan Qing Ba Jie Zhe De Gong Wei