Pay attention to the language art of communication(zhu yi gou tong de yu yan yi shu )

In life, it's not uncommon for couples to have a big fight because of one sentence. Why do loving couples quarrel because of one sentence?

The reason is that communication between husband and wife does not master the art of language, stabbing each other's heart, long-term conflict is inevitable.

When couples communicate effectively, euphemism is a very effective adhesive. Euphemism is a way to treat each other with frank and open communication. At the same time, we should respect the feelings of others and avoid unnecessary harm.

Here is a dialogue:

Husband: why don't you ever help me get clean shirts ready and put them in the drawer?

Wife: I know it makes you angry. I'll pay attention later. But, you have to help me, remember to put the dirty clothes in the wash basin, OK?

The smart wife used euphemistic language art to deal with her husband's exaggeration, and answered his exaggeration in a constructive way, and accepted the "reasonable part" of his attack. The wife's answer did not mean connivance, hypocrisy or covering up her feelings, but only respect and consideration, which would satisfy both sides.

Chinese PinYin : Zhu Yi Gou Tong De Yu Yan Yi Shu