How to get along with irascible people(zen yang yu pi qi bao zao de ren xiang chu )

A humorous word and a smile may be a good weapon to get along with people with a bad temper. At the same time, praise can also help you. This kind of people generally prefer to listen to flattery and good words. Therefore, we should seize the opportunity to praise him appropriately. To communicate with them, we should adopt more positive ways, and carefully use negative and critical ways.

(1) Magnanimous, laugh it off: when someone with a bad temper offends you, you must keep a cool head, ignore it, or stare at him, or laugh it off. This kind of "smile" can be a calm smile, a sneer of contempt, or a slightly ironic laugh The best thing is a calm smile. It can not only get rid of the embarrassing situation, but also let the other party retreat to avoid the deterioration of the situation.

(2) Forbearance for the time being, avoid the edge: when the irascible person offends you, if you are also a impatient person, impatience meets impatience, the tip of the needle is to Mai Mang, it is easy to catch fire. You should hold down the fire in your heart and hold back for a while to avoid the edge. When the other party's edge is sharply reduced, then fully and gently persuade the other party, you can also tell the truth and eliminate the other party's misunderstanding.

(3) Open mind, magnanimous: as long as you have a broad mind, you will not care about other people's attitude, have the courage to take responsibility for your own behavior, and work hard. If he is noisy, you will not; if he is fierce, you will not; if he scolds, you will not. So there won't be a fight. "The prime minister can hold a boat in his belly". As long as you have a gentle attitude and a broad mind, you will make the other party who was angry, reduce their anger and feel bored, so that they will be more restrained.

(4) Watch your words and take precautions: a person with a short temper is most likely to "vent" to everyone around him when he is on fire. At this time, you can give in. If you plan against him, you will become his "outlet". Therefore, you must observe your words and feelings, try to figure out the other party's psychological state, take a step back first, and then when his mood stabilizes, take two steps to explain everything to him.

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