When rejecting others, take into account their dignity(ju jue ta ren shi yao gu ji dui fang zun yan )

When rejecting others, take into account the dignity of the other party. Because the heart of self-esteem, people have it. Once people get involved in social activities, no matter how high their status, position and achievements are, they are all concerned about the external evaluation of themselves. Due to the different nature, intensity and way of evaluation from the outside world, people will react differently and have a positive or negative impact on the communication process and its results. The general rule is: respect is happy, not respect is sad. That is to say, when people's self-esteem psychology is satisfied when they get a positive evaluation, they will have a successful emotional experience, showing a happy, optimistic and excited mood, and then "reciprocate" to those who satisfy their self-esteem desire. They will have a good feeling and affinity, take a positive cooperative attitude, and the communication will develop in the direction of success. On the other hand, when people are not respected and evaluated unfairly, they will have a sense of loss, dissatisfaction and anger, and then a confrontational attitude will appear, making communication in crisis.

In social occasions, both manners and words should respect others, even when rejecting others, we should also take into account the dignity of the other party. Only in this way can we win the respect of others.

Chinese PinYin : Ju Jue Ta Ren Shi Yao Gu Ji Dui Fang Zun Yan