When pointing out other people's mistakes, we should adopt a euphemistic way of criticism, which makes the critics have a room to think. It is characterized by implicit implication and does not hurt the self-esteem of the critics. It's like the story of Yanzi's "curve" to save people: Qi Jinggong loves hunting very much, and he likes feeding eagles who catch rabbits very much. One day, zhuzou was careless and let an eagle escape. Jing Gong was furious when he knew, and ordered zhuzou to be beheaded. When Yanzi knew about it, he went to the court in a hurry. He said to Jinggong, "zhuzou has three major crimes. How can he kill him so easily? I'll put him to death after I've announced his guilt! " Jinggong nodded and agreed. Yanzi pointed to zhuzou and said, "zhuzou, you raise Eagles for the king, but let the eagles escape. This is the first crime. You make the king kill for the sake of birds. This is the second crime. Killing you makes all the princes know that the king values birds but despises men. This is your third crime. Well, king, please put him to death. " King's face turned red. After a long time, he said, "don't kill me. I understand you." Yan Zi criticizes Jing Gong in an unusual way. On the surface, he criticizes Zhu Zou for his crime. In fact, he criticizes Jing Gong for his mistake of valuing birds over people. This way of attacking the East and the west not only did not embarrass the king, but also interceded for Zhu Zou.
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