Refuse to drink in the way of opposing defense and attacking(yong fan shou wei gong de fang shi ju jiu )

When a wedding banquet comes to a climax, a "wine magnate" seems to be drunk but not drunk, and talks about it with great eloquence, asking three guests to dry a bottle together. In the face of the aggressive words of the "wine magnate", a guest immediately came out to refuse the wine, but the way was very clever, he said: "OK, but I want to ask you a question first. "If three people walk, there must be a teacher." is that Confucius' saying

"Yes." "Wine giant" immediately said.

The guests asked:

"Do you want the three of us to drink together?"

"The wine magnate" replied: "not bad."

The guests also said:

"Since the sage said," if three people walk, there must be a teacher, "you asked us to drink together. Now you are our best teacher. How about demonstrating a bottle first?" This sudden attack made the "wine magnate" helpless and speechless, and had to lift the "wine order".

This move is called "skillfully set up a trap, counter defense for attack", that is, first listen quietly, wait for the opportunity, once the time is ripe, seize the "breakthrough" in the dialect words, so as to cut in, counter defense for attack, make the other side speechless argument, and then refuse. Of course, the key to this move is to "set up a trap skillfully", which requires the game setter to jump out of the situation at that time and look at the matter itself with the mentality of an onlooker. At this time, there are often "shining" ideas jump into thinking. The most taboo is "straightforward" and "rude". "Virtual reality, real reality, virtual reality" is the axis of wine field.

Chinese PinYin : Yong Fan Shou Wei Gong De Fang Shi Ju Jiu