Asking distant relatives to do things can't be done overnight(qiu yuan qin ban shi bu neng yi cu er jiu )

When you are in trouble, the first thing you think of is to use relatives to solve it. Relatives have distant relatives and close relatives, for close relatives, generally can help solve the problem; and for distant relatives or relatives who usually do not walk and have been alienated, if you ask them to help, you need to consider countermeasures.

At this time, the one-step approach not only does not play a good role, but will make people bored, "come to me when you have something to do.". Adopt a step-by-step approach, gradually make it able to accept you, will receive better results. For example, they often visit relatives' homes to chat and help them do some housework, gradually deepening their feelings. At the critical moment, it's basically natural to speak your mind tactfully.

There are many people who think that now is an economic society. As long as they have money, everything can be settled. In fact, when it comes to business, I'm afraid that I can't find the temple gate even if I burn incense. Even my relatives who recognize money will avoid suspicion. Moreover, snobbish people are the most taboo.

Chinese PinYin : Qiu Yuan Qin Ban Shi Bu Neng Yi Cu Er Jiu