Public criticism of the boss or elders should be open-minded(dui shang si huo zhang bei de dang zhong zhi ze yi xu xin qing jiao )

When someone, especially the boss or elders, criticizes you in public, sometimes no matter whether his accusation is correct or not, and whether you are convinced or not, you may as well ask for advice with an open mind. In the eyes of the other party, your advice means a sincere apology.

For example, one noon, Xiao Ding and his boss had dinner together. After a few drinks, everyone began to chat happily. Suddenly, the boss said, "Xiao Ding, I'm not satisfied with your performance recently..." Xiaoding was very surprised and asked, "what do you mean?" “…… You don't seem to be very sociable and often don't say hello to your colleagues. " In the face of such public criticism from the boss, Xiaoding had better be at the banquet and ask the boss for improvement with a modest attitude. He can say like this: "director, I really want to do a good job and also want to have a good relationship with all the people. I just don't know where the trouble is. Please give me some advice!"

When a boss sees his subordinate's open-minded attitude, he will point out what he thinks is missing.

Chinese PinYin : Dui Shang Si Huo Zhang Bei De Dang Zhong Zhi Ze Yi Xu Xin Qing Jiao