Two sides please, two benefits(liang bian tao hao liang chu de yi )

The so-called "leadership" refers to those who dare not and cannot offend. When you walk in the officialdom or the workplace, you are likely to meet the leaders who are fighting with each other. The people who will come should be observant, listen to all sides, and give consideration to both sides. If you can't take refuge with one party clearly and get revenge for offending the other party, it's better for both sides to please each other.

In 1968, during the U.S. presidential election, Kissinger made a phone call to Nixon's campaign team and made it clear that he could provide valuable internal information to the Nixon camp. The Nixon team was very surprised and said that once the election was successful, the cabinet position would be Kissinger's.

At the same time, Kissinger also expressed his wish to the Democratic Party's nominee, Han Furui. When Han Furui asked him to provide Nixon's inside information, Kissinger told Nixon everything.

In fact, what he really wants is a cabinet seat, which Nixon and Humphrey have promised him. No matter who wins the election, Kissinger will benefit from it.

In the end, the winner was Nixon. Kissinger succeeded in becoming prime minister, but he still kept a certain distance from Nixon.

When Ford came to power, people who had been very close to Nixon were forced to step down, and Kissinger became an official of Ford. Because he kept a proper distance from Nixon, he was lucky not to step down and continued to dominate in the turbulent times.

When the two factions are antagonistic, if either side is annoyed, it will cause trouble to itself. In this case, we must wait for distance diplomacy, greet everyone with a smile, and let each faction regard themselves as "its own people.".

Chinese PinYin : Liang Bian Tao Hao Liang Chu De Yi