Asking for help depends on "grinding" a lot(qiu ren ban shi hen duo shi hou kao mo )

As the saying goes: "a good thing wears away a stone." Asking for help is often done by "grinding". Pestering the other party is a special way of asking for help. It strives for positive results in a negative way, showing perseverance and increasing pressure on the other party. "The heart is made of flesh." No matter how long the distance between friends is, as long as you are good at proving your sincerity with actions, you will urge the other party to think, understand your pains, and jump out of the stubborn frame, then you will "bubble" out of hope.

However, not everyone can do a good job in this kind of courtship. Only by controlling yourself, can you give full play to it. Therefore, you must master the following points:

(1) Be patient enough

When there is a deadlock in the process of asking for help, people's direct reaction is usually irritable, frustrated, angry or even angry. However, it doesn't help. You should control yourself rationally and take a patient attitude. At this time, patience shows the understanding of the other party's situation and the expectation of a turn for the better. With this state of mind, you can put yourself in a strong position mentally. Be able to keep everything in order, mobilize all their intelligence, and try every means to break through the deadlock.

(2) We should seize the opportunity to do things

"Grinding" is not a passive waste of time, nor is it hard to play rogue with others, but to be good at taking positive actions to influence and influence each other, so as to promote the transformation of the situation to a better direction. As long as you are good at proving your sincerity with actions, you will urge the other party to think, understand your pains, and jump out of the stubborn frame. Then you will "grind" out of hope. Grinding is also a kind of tenacity and a kind of strategy. In asking for help, the winner is the one who works hard.

Most of the time, people think it's very difficult to pester each other to ask for help. But it's impossible not to do things. If the other party deliberately shirks or refuses, we can only achieve our goal by pestering the other party. So cheekiness and patience are also the basic skills of asking for help.

Chinese PinYin : Qiu Ren Ban Shi Hen Duo Shi Hou Kao Mo