Ask for directions before you do things(ban shi qian xian tou shi wen lu )

It's hard to avoid dealing with people when dealing with affairs, but sometimes they are not always the people they trust most and approach most often. At this time, they can't express their feelings directly. The best way is to ask the way and test the attitude of the other party.

An effective way is not to directly ask the other party's attitude towards a specific practice, but to quote a common saying or story to test the general view of a certain kind of behavior, from which we can know the other party's possible attitude and action towards a specific problem.

However, in some cases, it requires both sides to have certain speaking skills in order to express their respective meanings more perfectly and artistically.

Chinese PinYin : Ban Shi Qian Xian Tou Shi Wen Lu