Four taboos in getting along with mother in law and daughter in law(po xi xiang chu si ji )

(1) A daughter-in-law should not keep close contact with a woman of the same age and status as her mother-in-law. When you encounter problems, you should communicate with your mother-in-law at the first time instead of others. At the same time, treat mother-in-law as a friend. This can not only win the trust of mother-in-law, but also establish a close relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

(2) No matter how close your relationship with your husband is, no matter how meek he is behind his back. Don't bossy him in front of his mother-in-law, but show your virtue in front of her.

(3) Never criticize any of his relatives in front of his husband, especially those on his mother-in-law's side.

(4) Never quarrel. In any case, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should not quarrel with each other. If one side is angry, the other side should be tolerant for the time being. If they have some opinions, they should never talk nonsense with neighbors, relatives and friends. When the words are passed around, there are often no contradictions. However, if we have to say something, we can say it well and honestly, or let our son convey it sincerely.

Chinese PinYin : Po Xi Xiang Chu Si Ji