Dare to suffer losses in handling affairs(ban shi yao gan chi kui )

People always need to face a variety of choices, and in the process of choice, we may lose part of the benefits. If we understand the truth that "suffering losses is a blessing", we will not worry and hesitate because of the gain and loss of personal interests. Give up some irrelevant things, give up some opportunities that we like, but can't do for some reasons. Even in some things that are easily available, and in some opportunities that we have full competitiveness and reasons, we may give up to others for some factors. Sometimes, this kind of abandonment is not necessarily to achieve a higher goal, but reflects the wisdom of the administrator. Only by not monopolizing all the opportunities and resources can we ensure that we do not lose the biggest and most core interests.

Chinese PinYin : Ban Shi Yao Gan Chi Kui