Self media show off(zì méi zì xuàn)

Self media show off

The synonym "self media self dazzle" generally refers to "self media self dazzle". Self media self dazzle comes from the biography of Xiao Yu in the book of Liang Dynasty: "self media self dazzle, honest and despicable; self praise and self attack, really shameful." The main idea is: I bow my head and feel sorry for myself. I can't feel sad and sigh. It's really despicable to introduce myself and show off myself. It's really shameful to praise and praise myself.

Extension

Usage: used as predicate, object and attribute; used in writing. [source] biography of Xiao Yu in the book of Liang Dynasty: "it's despicable for a man to show off his own reputation, but it's shameful for him to fight against his own reputation." [example] contemporary · Yin Qian: "some writers bury themselves because they attach too much importance to themselves, just like a meteor in the vast night sky. Although they were once famous for a while, they could not write about it and became unknown, because they did not take root in the earth, go deep into the bottom, and go to the people to seek a more important existence than themselves. Instead, they enclosed themselves in a narrow circle, making their own mistakes, doing their own thing, self glorifying and self pitying, until they were depressed. " (complete works of essays by Yin Qian)

history

Xiao Yu, Zizhen, is Xiao Jing's fourth brother. In the early years of Tianjian, he was awarded Secretary Lang, and moved to be prince Sheren, Shama, Zhongshu Sheren and Zhongshu Shilang for many times. He often asked for self-examination. Gaozu appointed him as the officer of Jinzhi County, Yongjia County and Xiangyang County, but he didn't go. He volunteered to go to the border counties. Gaozu thought he was frivolous, unstable and had no prestige, so he restrained him and forbade him to go. Later, he moved to serve as a servant of Huangmen. Xiao Yu went up to the emperor and said, "the statement I submitted at the beginning of summer was not accepted. It made me tremble to look back on the past and feel ashamed and afraid. I've heard that it rains heavily in summer and it's cold in winter. Villains still have complaints. Who can forget whether they are proud or frustrated in politics, or whether they are favored or humiliated? I've been able to join the ranks of Royal relatives and get attention by virtue of my past relationship. The opportunity to repay kindness is already mixed, and I'm facing the fate of poverty and failure. In the last years of the Qi Dynasty, when I was a volunteer teacher, I was young and just a little sensible. Because the traffic between the East and the West was cut off, I couldn't go to the volunteer teacher. Although I didn't hold a spear and wear a bell armour, I was full of tears and indignation. I lurked in the East and experienced hardships and dangers. In the past three years, I moved to several places. Even though I was hungry and cold, I didn't suffer from cold. Every time I met with surprise, I was so scared that I lost my soul. I had already violated my fatal integrity, and I was afraid of being killed in vain. I separated my body from my head. I was looking forward to a prosperous and peaceful day, and I could enjoy the joy together. But I had been looking forward to more than 20 years, and there was no record of fame. My whole body would be filled in the gully, and my sincere heart and pure desire would suddenly end forever It's really despicable to introduce myself and show off myself; it's really shameful to praise and praise myself. However, if you have a clear understanding of your own situation and are able to exert your talents before you take up an official position, you will not dare to talk empty words. Therefore, you often hope to have a try and ask others for help many times. It's hard to be so greedy to be able to go up to the sky. But if brocade is not cut, it's hard to make clothes. Because all kinds of evil results of my previous life have become obstacles in this life, which leads to the violation of calculation and measurement. Since the emperor thinks that the minister is stupid and flawed and can't be tried out, can he tolerate me living in the forbidden area of the royal family for a long time and sullying the official position of the yellow gate. I'm afraid that I'm going to suffer from people's discussion. Please remove me from today's position and beg Ping to return home. I fell down and asked for the emperor's special permission. Although I have received the honor of the two palaces, I can't repay my service and go against the will of the palace. I feel nostalgia and fear. " Gao Zu wrote Shao Shu himself and replied: "Xiao Yu's upper form is like this. In ancient times, we must try to employ people face-to-face. We must make achievements and have a good effect before we can show our high style of humility. Liu Zhang and Liu Xing, the sons of Mo Guangwu's elder brother in those years, were well-known people in the imperial clan. But they wanted to be officials. Liu Zhang became the magistrate of Pingyin County, and Liu Xing became the governor of Gou family. When they had the ability in politics, they moved to the position of prefect. Not only were their achievements praised by people, but they were also the nephews of Guangwu. Xiao Yu, how can you compare your talent and insight with them? In the past few years, you have refused to work in Huainan county. Then you were appointed as Zhaoyuan general, Zhenbei Changshi and Xiangyang prefect, and you pushed them off because they were remote areas. Later, you were appointed as Zhaoyuan general and Yongjia prefect, but you said it was not your wish to go to the mainland. Then I asked you about Jin'an and Linchuan Place, as you choose, is not willing to go. Apart from the headscarf, there is nothing trivial to take up an official post. But you have spoken many times. What's your intention? Besides, several elder brothers of Xiao Yu have become sheriff, commander-in-chief and so on. They have recommended each other for a year. Your brother, Xiao Jing, is now living in a vassal town. Do I treat Xiao Jinghou and you Xiao Yubo? It's just the comments of the court. You can be worthy of such an order. Needless to say, this is not the case today. Brother Xiao Yu was a common people in those days. Because he was growing up, why did he choose his own life and how could he indulge himself in disobeying the right way and the heaven and the earth. Who said that the imperial court did not have a charter? It just did not want to put you in front of the court. Now that you have asked for dismissal, do as you ask Xiao Yu was removed from office. From then on, he gave thanks to the emperor and never went to the court to see the emperor again. He was no longer informed to attend any national celebration or funeral.

Chinese PinYin : zì méi zì xuàn