marital happiness(yàn ěr xīn hūn)

marital happiness

Yan'er's new marriage is a Chinese idiom. The Pinyin is y à n à Rx à NH à n, which originally means that the abandoned wife told her husband to remarry and have fun with her new lover. Later, it was used to celebrate her new marriage. To describe the joy of a newlywed is to be a newlywed. It comes from the fourth fold of Peidu huandai written by Guan Hanqing in Yuan Dynasty.

Idioms and allusions

The second volume of Mao Shi Zheng Yi (Guofeng · Yingfeng · Gufeng) ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～ 89 ～. It is better to be angry than to be together. What's the matter with you? No one can disobey virtue, and you will die together. The road is slow and the center is in violation. Not far Yi you, Bo send me Ji. Who calls tea bitter, its sweet as shepherd's purse. The banquet is new and faint, like a brother. The river is turbid, which is the reason. I don't think I'll be happy. Don't forget me, don't forget me. I bow and don't read, don't worry about me. As far as its depth is concerned, the boat of the square. It's shallow, it's easy to swim. If there is any death, I will try my best to find it. Where there is a funeral, crawl to save it. No, I can't. instead, I'm the enemy. It's not for sale. In the past, Yu was afraid of Yu, but in time, it was subversive. It is better to be born and bred than to be poisoned. I have a purpose to save, but also to winter. If you are new and faint, you will be poor with me. There's something wrong and there's something wrong. If you don't remember the past, Yi Yu will come to long.

Idiom usage

Example: the fourth fold of Pei Du Huan Dai written by Guan Hanqing of Yuan Dynasty: "the number one scholar gets off the horse and gets married. He gets married and gets married." The eighth chapter of Jin Ping Mei CI Hua: "it's said that since Ximen Qing married Yu Lou at home, Yan Er's new marriage is like glue." In the Peach Blossom Fan CI yuan written by Kong Shangren in the Qing Dynasty: "it's just that Yan Er is newly married. How can he give up?" Chapter 69 of a dream of Red Mansions: "it's a pair of fiery firewood. They are just like glue. Yan Er is newly married and can be torn down there for days."

Idiom story

"Yan Er's new marriage" refers to the honeymoon of the newly married couple, which is as sweet and happy as glue. But many people don't know what "Yan Er" means. "Yan'er" was first written as "Yan'er". Later, in the long process of spreading, "Yan'er" was mistakenly written as "Yan'er" because "Yan" and "Yan" are homophonic. From then on, people did not understand its meaning. "Banquet" means joy and joy, "Er" means you (we). "Wedding banquet" is to celebrate your wedding. In this way, the word is incomprehensible: clearly "we" wedding, celebrate "we" wedding, how to become a celebration of "you" wedding? It turns out that there is a sad story buried in it. The earliest source of "Yan Er's new marriage" is "the book of songs · Ying Feng · Gu Feng". This poem is about an abandoned woman's unfortunate fate when she is driven out of her home. The abandoned wife and her husband are a peasant couple. When they first got married, their family was very poor. Through their joint efforts, their family situation gradually improved. The most capable one was his wife, who built a fishing dam, woven fishing baskets, fished in the dam and sold them in the market. The wife's heart is very kind. When there is something difficult in the neighbor's house, she has to help even when she is climbing. but I didn't expect that when my family was better, my husband changed his heart. All the previous vows of "die together" were forgotten. He fell in love with other more beautiful women. He liked the new and hated the old. He boxed his wife and put all the hard work on her. What's more hateful is that he drove his ex-wife out of the house on the day when he married a new wife, and he didn't even want to send more. He just stopped at the door. The abandoned woman left the house alone and went back to her mother's house. In the ears of the abandoned woman came the sound of the wedding being held at home. Full of resentment, she chanted such a poem: "when you are newly married, you are like a brother.". "Wedding banquet" was originally a complaint of blood and tears of the abandoned woman, but later it became the sweetness of honeymoon! The change of word meaning can never cover up the sorrow of the abandoned woman!

Chinese PinYin : yàn ěr xīn hūn