Complaining about the shame
The synonym "holding a grudge and snowing a disgrace" generally refers to "reporting a grudge and snowing a disgrace". Chinese idiom, Pinyin is "B à oyu à nxu à ch à", which means "reporting a grudge and washing a disgrace". It's from yance, Warring States strategy.
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Newspaper: revenge; snow: wash. Revenge and disgrace.
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Yan CE, the Warring States policy: "if the former king complained about his shame, he would become a powerful country."
Chinese PinYin : bào yuàn xuě chǐ
Hold one's grudge and shed one's shame
Criticizing the scale and asking for the sword. pī lín qǐng jiàn
become fashionable for a time. fēng mǐ yī shí
wait for the right price to sell. dài jiǎ ér gū
a disciple who has not taken lessons directly under the master himself. sī shū dì zǐ
a runaway horse gallops so fast that it leaves no trace. bēn yì jué chén