It's appropriate to expose yourself(tan lu zi ji yao shi dang )

It is difficult for a person who never exposes himself to establish a close relationship with others. A person who always talks about himself to others will not win friendship, or even annoy others. Just like Sister Xianglin in Lu Xun's novels, a person who always talks about her own affairs may be recognized by others at first, but will be annoyed by people after a long time. Therefore, in revealing yourself to others, you should be just right, not too much or too little.

Psychologists believe that the ideal self exposure is to do more self exposure to a few close friends, and to do moderate exposure to general friends and other people. Besides, you don't have to tell your secret. In front of people we don't know very well, we can exchange some unselfish feelings in our life, which can give people a sense of closeness and keep ourselves in an unsafe situation.

Chinese PinYin : Tan Lu Zi Ji Yao Shi Dang