You can't do whatever you want(sui xin suo yu yao bu de )

In life, people can not be smooth sailing, setbacks, back time is inevitable. A person's misfortune is not only his own misfortune, but also a test for the people around him, especially for his friends. Those who are far away may become passers-by from now on. Those who sympathize with and help them tide over difficulties may remember you for a lifetime. The so-called friends in need are often formed in difficult times. The friendship formed at this time is the most valuable and worth collecting.

Friends pay attention to friendship, so we must treat friends as we do ourselves. Don't sprinkle salt on friends' wounds, intentionally or unintentionally. In short, these are not conducive to the long-term friendship.

It's not indifference and estrangement, but considerate, caring and understanding. Between friends, you don't have to be careful in everything. Talking is like talking with competitors. Visiting is like entering an organization. However, it's not enough to be informal, not to be taboo, just to be happy, regardless of the embarrassment and disgust of friends. As the saying goes: disease comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth. In order to maintain and enhance friendship, please pay attention not to offend your friend's "rebellious scale" by focusing on your own pleasure. We should not only avoid touching other people's taboos, but also pay attention not to mention the things related to their taboos, so as to avoid causing misunderstanding and unnecessary damage to their self-esteem.

As the saying goes: "keep a dwarf, don't say short words." For short people, it's better not to mention such words as "short", "small", "short", as well as "wooden pier", "bucket" and so on, so as to avoid misunderstanding.

For those who have committed a crime or been sentenced, it is better not to mention "prison", "reform through labor", "criminal", "illegal" and other things related to his taboo. Otherwise, he will think that you are criticizing others.

For those who can't find a partner, it's better not to talk about "marriage", "love", "boyfriend", "gift" and other related topics with them, so as not to upset them.

There are too many such situations. In a word, we can't treat our friends at will.

Chinese PinYin : Sui Xin Suo Yu Yao Bu De