See through each other's heart from sitting posture(cong zuo zi kan tou dui fang de xin )

A person's sitting posture can often reflect the information of his mental state. Sitting posture is a state formed by the cooperation of various parts of the body, which can be explained as an independent nonverbal behavior.

When people feel nervous or anxious, they will lean towards the door and window, or keep beating the floor with their legs, in order to get rid of or leave the unfavorable environment immediately. People who sit down abruptly in front of others seem to be informal and casual on the surface, but their inner mind must be restless. People who like to sit opposite or side by side with others are because they want to be able to People who can be understood or recognized by others, and consciously change from sitting side by side to facing, or have doubts about you, show that they have a new interest in you; people who like to sit side by side, show that they are in a good mood at this time, and feel that there is no need to leave any special impression on others; people who turn the chair upside down, the back of the chair forward, the legs spread, and straddle on the chair, show that they have a new interest in you He is facing the threat of speech, tired of the content of the conversation, or wants to suppress the advantages of others in the conversation, which is a kind of defensive behavior; people who lie down or sit deeply in the chair, with straight waist and high head, show his psychological superiority; people who curl up their bodies as much as possible, with their hands in their thighs, show that he is inferiority and lack of self-confidence in psychology A person who sits upright and does not look askance shows that he is trying to make a good impression on others, or that he is calm and magnanimous at the moment; a woman who likes to cross her legs either has confidence in her appearance or wants to attract others' attention.

It can be seen that different sitting posture will show different psychological trends. Only by understanding the meaning behind these nonverbal behaviors can we get insight into the real feelings and thoughts of others, so as to know ourselves and the other and be flexible.

Chinese PinYin : Cong Zuo Zi Kan Tou Dui Fang De Xin