What are the characteristics of those who are too respectful(yan ci guo yu gong jing de ren you he xing ge te zheng )

When they communicate with others, these people are always humble and always speak with respectful language and praise. When you first meet someone, they may feel embarrassed, but they will never be disgusted by them. However, with the deepening of communication, others will gradually perceive this kind of attitude, and will be angry. At this time, most of the comments on him turned out to be: "that guy turned out to be a man of duplicity and superficial respect!"

This kind of person must have received strict and wrong education from his parents in his early childhood, especially in respect of etiquette. Therefore, those desires which are acceptable to ordinary people are not permitted by their conscience, which leads to their feelings of fear, guilt and uneasiness. Therefore, they repress all kinds of desires, impulses and emotions in their heart, and they are imprisoned. However, the pent up desires, impulses and emotions will one day form a strong impulse to attack and vent. They are intuitively aware of this, and for the sake of concealment, they start a counter psychological defense mechanism - more respectful to people. That is to say, such people who treat others with unbearable humility tend to have a strong desire to attack others.

Chinese PinYin : Yan Ci Guo Yu Gong Jing De Ren You He Xing Ge Te Zheng