Don't touch the patient's pain(bu yao chu ji bing ren de tong ku )

When visiting an unfortunate person who is seriously ill, there is no need to talk too much about his illness. The conversation should not touch the most uncomfortable symptoms of the patient, so as not to upset the patient. If the other party is already carrying the mental burden of the disease, if you talk too much about the disease, it is bound to aggravate the burden. When you see the patient's face haggard, you can't be surprised to ask: "why is your face so ugly?" But to say: "here medical conditions are good, your disease will soon get better."

When visiting, the better way to talk is: first briefly ask about the illness, and then talk more about the lively and interesting news in the society, so as to divert the other party's attention and reduce the mental burden. Long stay in the ward, this kind of new news is what he is eager to know. If we can talk more about the happy events and good news related to the other party, we can make him feel happy, relaxed and fat, which is more conducive to his early recovery.

Chinese PinYin : Bu Yao Chu Ji Bing Ren De Tong Ku