The popular 20 principles(shou ren huan ying de yuan ze )

(1) Learn to listen.

(2) Don't borrow money from friends.

(3) Respect people who don't like you.

(4) Don't always win when you play.

(5) You don't have to use "I" as the subject of everything.

(6) Don't tell people all about the past.

(7) Clap for everyone who comes on stage to sing.

(8) We should be merciless to things and be affectionate to people. We should be first in life and second in work.

(9) Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is success.

(10) Drive your own car. Don't stop to say hello to a colleague who rides a bicycle. People will think you are showing off.

(11) Sometimes you have to ask clearly: "your diamond ring is very expensive!" Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can't ask, such as "how old are you?"

(12) It will take time, I'll try my best, I'm not sure, I'll call you when I decide

(13) When a colleague is sick, he will visit him and naturally sit on his bed. When he comes home, he will wash his hands carefully.

(14) Insist on saying good things about others behind their backs. Don't worry that such good things won't get to the ears of the parties.

(15) If you know the power and water cut-off notice, please inform your neighbors or colleagues.

(16) Don't take the good of others for granted. Be grateful.

(17) Self criticism always makes people believe, but self praise is not.

(18) When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

(19) When you shake hands with someone, you can hold them a little longer. Sincerity is treasure.

(20) Respect the master and the aunt of the reception room.

Chinese PinYin : Shou Ren Huan Ying De Yuan Ze