Don't be shy when you ask for help(qiu ren ban shi bu yao you xiu qie xin li )

Blush as soon as you speak, cover your mouth as soon as you smile, and bow your head as soon as you go out. This is the common performance of many naturally shy people. But shyness is a natural enemy. In the process of asking for help, the first step is to overcome shyness.

To overcome shyness, we should start from the following aspects

(1) Learn to be frank: first of all, we must learn to respect others, do not give others a kind of arrogant, superior impression, so that others will like you and willing to associate with you. Otherwise, he would indulge in self admiration all day long. Although he wanted to overcome shyness subjectively, he would go back to the old way of shyness because of the objective failure. Secondly, we should be warm, cheerful and willing to communicate with others. Otherwise, if you are silent all day, others will not want to disturb you. Only when you are good at expressing yourself and make others have fun in talking with you can others be willing to talk with you and you can get rid of the shadow of shyness.

(2) To raise awareness: to be clear that character is gradually formed in the process of life, if you have formed a shy character, do not deliberately pursue bold and outgoing, because shy people also have many advantages. To avoid shyness, the key is to think less about yourself, more about others, more about social values, and more about how to interact with others. In addition, we should have a correct understanding of ourselves and admit that shyness is our weakness. In this way, when others pay attention to your aspect, you will not be nervous or deliberately hide yourself, and can take an easy-going attitude. Only in this way, can you have a closer and friendly relationship with others.

(3) Pay attention to others: you should pay attention to others' actions and hobbies, and know what topics and behaviors they are most interested in. In this way, when you interact with people, you will be able to give in to what you like and make people feel that you are easy to approach and become good friends.

In a word, you should try your best to overcome your shyness. In this way, it will open a door for your success.

Chinese PinYin : Qiu Ren Ban Shi Bu Yao You Xiu Qie Xin Li