Don't lose face when asking for help(qiu ren ban shi bu yao si yao mian zi )

A lot of people are dying for face, asking people to do things, dying for face, then what is waiting for you is to live and suffer. If you are always very noble, can this be done?

Of course, you should have face. If you don't want face at all, I'm afraid your self-esteem will disappear. The key problem is to find out how to avoid losing face, what face can be lost and what face should be preserved. Of course, people also understand very well that we should lose face out of vanity. We need to protect the face of personality. Why not? And the way to protect them is to seek truth from facts. The facts are all there, the straight lines are clear, the face is not guaranteed, the sensationalism and the affectation, the face is not guaranteed.

We should understand face in this way: one can't lose face, but one can't lose face. Those who want to lose face will lose face.

You know, death to face will make people become eccentric, live to suffer.

Just imagine, such a person to go to other people to do things, then the probability of success will be how much?

In a word, it's very harmful to ask for help, or even seriously damage your interpersonal relationship.

Chinese PinYin : Qiu Ren Ban Shi Bu Yao Si Yao Mian Zi