Only by keeping faith can we convince others(ke shou xin yong cai neng shi ta ren xin fu )

In the relationship between people, credit is a very important communication principle. In communication with others, if a person tells the truth, doesn't lie, keeps his promise, practices his promise, keeps his words and deeds in line with his appearance, the people around him are willing to have normal communication with him.

Only a person who abides by his promise can win the trust of others and be welcomed and praised by others. China Youth Daily has successively reported on the experience of Ideological and political work in Tsinghua University, in which it tells such a story:

One night, a deputy secretary of the Party Committee received a phone call from a classmate. The student asked, "the toilet in our dormitory is broken. Do you want to be a leader?" "No So, he found the general manager of the school overnight, led the logistics personnel to the scene, dredged the toilet. The next morning, when the students found that the toilet was unblocked and the corridor was clean, they praised the school leaders for their "words are true".

In interpersonal communication, it is very important to pay attention to credit. If we can't do this, we will lose the hearts of the people and be reprimanded and reviled by others.

Keeping faith is the condition to win others' trust in interpersonal communication. However, in a complex society, sometimes keeping faith does not necessarily help us succeed. Sometimes lying will benefit us. If there are no twists and turns, we may even be regarded as capable people. From this point of view, treachery seems to have a certain value in social interaction, but it is only a short-term social behavior. Mr. Lao She once said: "the failure of a trustworthy person is not due to keeping his promise, while the success of a cunning person who abandons his promise is not due to cunning." This is a sentence worth pondering. Confucius said: "a long time and do not forget the words of life." It's true that keeping our promise is our best policy in this society. It's the most noble sentiment in people's interaction. It's also an important condition for others to believe in you.

Chinese PinYin : Ke Shou Xin Yong Cai Neng Shi Ta Ren Xin Fu