In communication activities, some people fall into a dilemma because they have made inappropriate or unreasonable actions on specific occasions. In this case, the most effective way for others to make a round is to change an angle or find an excuse to prove that the other party's unreasonable actions are justified and justifiable in this situation In this way, the embarrassment of the other party can be relieved, and the normal interpersonal relationship can continue.
Once, the famous actor Xin Fengxia and her husband held a dinner for the elderly, inviting many famous predecessors in the literary and art circles. Qi Baishi, a famous painter in his 90s, accompanied by the nurse, also came to attend. After the old man sat down, he took Xin Fengxia by the hand and stared at her. The nurse said to Baishi in a reproachful voice, "what do you always stare at others?" Old man Baishi was not happy and said, "I'm so old. Why can't I see her? She's beautiful. " With that, the old man turned red with anger, which made everyone very embarrassed. At this time, xinfengxia said to old man Baishi with a smile, "you see, I'm an actor. I'm not afraid to be seen." Everyone on the scene laughed and the atmosphere eased down. Here, Xin Fengxia properly used the skills of making ends meet, emphasized the rationality of the event, and took "she is an actor" as the reason to prove that old man Baishi saw herself as legitimate and reasonable. In this way, she successfully got out of the predicament and found the reason for the other party's behavior.
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