Look far away when praising(zan mei shi kan de yuan yi dian )

Praise should not only accord with the reality in front of us, but also be forward-looking and predictable. Only in this way can you raise the height of your praise and make your praise stand the test of scrutiny and time.

Some things are relatively stable, such as people's appearance, personality, habits, etc., which are easy to praise. But some things are not stable, such as people's behavior, achievements, thoughts, attitudes, etc. if we take a long-term view, we should be careful when praising them. It's easy for a person to do a good deed under certain pressure or demand, but it's difficult to do a good deed all his life. If praise is limited to the matter, it is easy to make shortsighted mistakes.

Chinese PinYin : Zan Mei Shi Kan De Yuan Yi Dian