Refuse with perfunctory method(yong fu yan fa jin hang ju jue )

Perfunctory refusal is the most commonly used method of refusal. Perfunctory refusal is to vaguely refuse the client when it is inconvenient to refuse. Perfunctory is a kind of art, and good results will be achieved if it is used well. If once Zhuangzi borrowed money from the Marquis of Jianhe, he perfunctorily said, "good! After a while, when I collect the rent, I will lend you three hundred taels of gold. " The perfunctory manner of Jianhe marquis is very good. He does not say that he will not borrow it or borrow it immediately, but that he will borrow it after collecting rent for a period of time. This has several meanings: first, I don't have it at present, and I can't lend it to you now; second, I'm not rich either; third, I don't really mean to borrow it after a period of time. After listening, Chuang Tzu understood very well, but he would not resent anything, because the Marquis of Jianhe did not say that he would not borrow it. He just said it after a while. There is still hope. This method can also be used to refuse improper requests from close people. Of course, when using this method, the other party also needs to have a strong understanding ability, otherwise it is impossible to see its effect. When we use this method, we can use some specific ways, such as evasion, wrong answer, vague refusal and so on.

Chinese PinYin : Yong Fu Yan Fa Jin Hang Ju Jue