In the process of Q & A, there are two different psychological hypotheses: one is for the questioner and the other is for the respondent. The respondent should answer according to the questioner's psychological hypothesis instead of his own.
A U.S. Army captain served as a financial officer in the army, and he had embezzled a lot of public funds in private for many years. One day, when he was shopping at the US military special market, two gendarmes came up to him, patted him on the shoulder and said, "Captain, would you please come outside with us?" The captain said that he would go to the bathroom first. Please wait for the two gendarmes. The captain went into the bathroom and shot himself. The two gendarmes were taken aback. They just saw his car parked outside the door next to the fire hydrant and told him to back it up a little bit.
This is the result of the captain's psychological assumption that he had been found embezzling public funds. Apart from right and wrong, if the captain asked in the psychological assumption of the gendarmerie, "what's the matter?" If you go out to have a look, you may live well.
Chinese PinYin : Yi Fa Wen Ren De Xin Li Jia She Hui Da
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