Don't expose others(qian wan bu yao jie ren duan )

In China, there is always the so-called "counter scale" theory, even if the tame dragon, it can not be taken lightly. There is a "counter scale" about one foot in diameter below the throat of the dragon. Only this part of the dragon's body grows in the opposite direction. If you accidentally touch this "counter scale", you will be killed by the enraged dragon. It doesn't matter how you touch or knock other parts. Only this piece of inverse scale can't get close at all. Even if you touch it gently, it's a big taboo.

Therefore, we can know from this that no matter how noble and great a person's personality is, there are "rebellious scales" in him. As long as we don't touch each other's "scale", we won't get into trouble. Therefore, the so-called "adversity scale" is what we call "pain", that is, weakness and inferiority complex. In view of this, it is necessary for us to study in advance and find out the position of the other party's "adversity scale", so as not to offend.

However, the personality types of human beings are various. When we talk about the left, he says the right. When we talk about the right, he has to talk about the left. There are many people who always disagree with others like this. Even if it is not so extreme, there are still some people who stubbornly insist on their own position, or whose opinions are clearly minority opinions, but never accept any opinions from others. There are also some people who stubbornly believe that only their own practices and ideas are the most correct in the world. Of course, there are also people who try to hide their own heart and try to test the other party's mind. They don't hesitate to be submissive, flatter and flatter, and cater to the other party's tone, so as to explore the truth.

The injured scar can't be cut. The more you cut, the easier it is to get inflamed. It will inevitably make the wound bigger. Touching people's pain is like picking people's wounds. As a result, it violates the taboo of getting along with others, offends others, and can't get any benefits by itself.

Chinese PinYin : Qian Wan Bu Yao Jie Ren Duan