How to deal with the situation of being pushed out at work(ru he ying dui gong zuo zhong zao ren pai ji de zhuang kuang )

There must be reasons for being pushed out by colleagues. There are no more than six reasons

(1) Recently, I've been upgraded and attracted envy from my colleagues, so I'll crowd you out.

(2) You just came to work, you have enviable advantages, including high education, background, outstanding appearance, which may make colleagues jealous.

(3) The person who employs you is the number one public enemy that everyone in the company hates, so you are also involved.

(4) They dress strangely, talk too much and show off, which makes their colleagues shy away.

(5) Too much to please the superior and neglect to associate with colleagues.

(6) It hinders colleagues from obtaining benefits, including promotion, salary increase and other things that can benefit.

If it belongs to the first and second items, this is also very natural. The so-called "it is mediocre not to attract people's jealousy", and it is not a matter of losing face to attract people's jealousy. In fact, as long as you are usually kind to people, it is not difficult for colleagues to find that you are an honest person and will be happy to associate with you over time. In addition, you can cultivate your chat charm, because one of your colleagues' biggest hobbies is chatting. Chatting can change your colleagues' attitude towards you.

If you are in the third category, it is your own misfortune. You have to wait for an opportunity to show your colleagues that you are applying for the job because you love it. It has nothing to do with the person who hired you, and it has nothing to do with him. As long as colleagues understand that you are not a spy sent by the public enemy, they will naturally welcome you.

If it belongs to Item 4 or 5, you have to reflect on it, because the problem lies in yourself. If you want to make colleagues change their views, you have to improve yourself. Usually, don't make some surprising remarks. Learn to be an audience. Clothes should also suit your status. They should be clean and unassuming. Too prominent clothes will not bring you convenience, but will make your colleagues regard you as a hostile target.

If it belongs to Item 6, you should pay attention to your propriety. It's certainly desirable to be able to make profits, but don't pay too much attention to profits, let alone compete with colleagues for fame and profits. People often say that it's your push that can't be pushed off, and it's not your snatch that can't be snatched. If you understand this, what else can be argued about? In the face of such things, the let, put on a high profile. Although you have suffered a loss this time, you will be compensated later. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. It doesn't look good right now. Who says there won't be good results in the future?

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