Be careful in making friends(jiao you yao shen zhong )

When making friends, we should be wary and have certain recognition ability. When you interact with a person, you should judge the motivation of the other person's interaction with you, the person who values you or something else. If you only value your money and potential or other interests, then you don't have to make deep friends. If you can achieve mutual benefit, you may as well make contacts.

It should be clear: the selection of friends can not be based on your emotional likes and dislikes alone. Because if you just choose your friends by whether you like them or not, you will lose many valuable friends. Some people may feel uncomfortable at first sight, or because they look strange, or because they are unsanitary, or because their language is not elegant, but this is only your first impression. Maybe after you get to know them, you will think that they are your most reliable friends.

Birds of a feather flock together. Look around the other person, you can know if he is worth your hand. If the other party's friends are all nondescript and nondescript, his quality will not be too high; if he makes friends with people without moral cultivation, his own cultivation will not be too good. Therefore, to know a person's friend is to know the person. If you want to know a person, you can also observe how he treats others.

When a person is proud, he likes to tell the scene of his association with others. When he says it, he has no intention and will not think that he has any relationship with the person being said. Therefore, it is generally true.

If the other party says in front of you how to take advantage of others, how to cheat the other party, and so on, then you have to pay attention to him in the future, he may also treat you like this.

There is another kind of person who is more tactful and seems to be good at dealing with the world, often in person. Smart people should pay attention to this kind of people, because if they say others are bad behind their back, they may say you are bad behind your back.

And there is a kind of person who may criticize you face to face, point out your shortcomings, but praise the advantages of others in front of you. You may not want to accept his frankness, but this kind of person is very trustworthy and can be your good friend.

To know who is not, the key is to distinguish the behavior of some people in life, to have a more rational judgment of their behavior, so that you will make real friends.

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