It's hard to be alone(gu fang zi shang yao bu de )

Human beings are social animals. No one can live in isolation. Since we are part of the society, we should not run counter to the discipline of the society. We should not do whatever we want regardless of the position of others. Living in such a complex society, we must work together with other people, such as superiors, colleagues and subordinates, to develop business and make our group life more harmonious. But the so-called concerted effort is not to dedicate one's soul to the group, or to obliterate one's personality and completely melt oneself into the melting pot of the group. Although it is very important to play the spirit of collectivism in a group, we should not lose our individuality in order to comply with the actions of the group. We still need to cultivate an independent character, that is, to participate in social life with the spirit of "sharing the same stream but not polluting".

No one in the world is all rounder. Some people may make achievements in architecture, some in literature, and some in politics. It is someone who is an expert on one hand and someone who is an expert on the other that makes the world so harmonious.

Therefore, we should not long for ourselves to be able to be vigorous in every field, and we should not think that after we have made achievements in a certain area, we will make achievements in all aspects and be complacent. This often leads to social failure.

Chinese PinYin : Gu Fang Zi Shang Yao Bu De