Be a "third party" of onlookers(zuo yi ge pang guan de di san zhe )

In our daily life, we will inevitably encounter people who speak ill of someone in front of you. At this time, you must correct your attitude, don't be influenced by his words, and don't speak ill of others. The best way is not to fish in muddy water. When others speak ill of someone in front of you, it's not natural to be a "third party" watching.

The relationship between people is complex and sensitive. Especially when chatting in the office, when it comes to someone's gossip, don't go along with him. If this word reaches other people's ears, the result can be imagined.

It's wise that when someone speaks ill of others in front of you, you can say whatever others like. If you can't listen, you can't listen. It's best to slip away. If it's inconvenient to slip away, you can't answer the question and start another topic.

For example, someone who criticizes someone to you is not: "this person is good at everything, but is a bit of a big success, flattery."

In such a situation, if you can smile, it's best to turn the topic aside. If you can't turn the topic aside, you'll ignore it, which obviously offends people. At this time, you can start a new topic to achieve the goal.

The other person may say "I don't know" and then continue to say "do you know? He also secretly gave gifts to the boss.... "

Then you go on with your topic.

I believe that after such a few words, the other party will know that they are not interested and keep silent.

Chinese PinYin : Zuo Yi Ge Pang Guan De Di San Zhe