Treat friends of the opposite sex with courtesy first(yan qing yi xing peng you yi li wei xian )

When entertaining friends of the opposite sex, especially men and women, special attention should be paid to etiquette, which not only shows your respect for each other, but also reflects your self-restraint.

When dining with a woman on a date, pay attention to the appointed time. It's barely acceptable for women to wait 5-10 minutes in public. Beyond this time, it is impolite. At this time should call in advance, so as not to affect the other party's mood.

Men should stand when women come to the table, and even in mixed restaurants, they should lift their upper body slightly until the woman is seated or invited to sit down. Men also stand up when women leave the table.

When dining with friends of the opposite sex, you should also pay attention to the following points:

(1) Don't talk about women's affairs, and don't show doubt about their morality in front of others.

(2) Avoid contact with women's bodies.

(3) Don't talk about topics that embarrass women.

(4) Speak to a woman at a slightly higher volume than usual. Don't talk too intimately. Don't cross the hall and call out a woman's name.

(5) In business negotiation, the payment can be made by women; when women are invited to a social dinner, all the expenses should be borne by men.

(6) If a woman invites a male colleague to a bar for a drink or to a restaurant for a meal, the woman should pay. Even if the woman is a young man who has just graduated from school and the colleagues she invited are very rich, the rule should not be changed: whoever invites the other party should pay the bill.

(7) If the first date is invited by the woman, keep in mind that all expenses should be paid by the woman, including dinner, tickets, parking fees, transportation fees, etc. as for how to share the future appointment expenses, it's up to you to consider.

Chinese PinYin : Yan Qing Yi Xing Peng You Yi Li Wei Xian