When you present a gift, say something appropriate(cheng shang li wu shi shuo yi ju de ti de hua )

Generally speaking, the use of modest and appropriate language when giving gifts will create a peaceful atmosphere and increase mutual friendship. But excessive modesty is best avoided. Don't say anything like "it's bought for you temporarily", "it's not enough for my family", "it doesn't cost a few money", etc. your original intention may be to persuade the other party not to refuse, but it's easy to be taken seriously by the other party, resulting in a sense of being ignored.

When giving gifts, some people like to emphasize the meagre of their gifts, such as "just a meager gift, no respect, please accept it" and "this is our little consideration, please accept it". In fact, at this time, you can express your sincerity by expressing your thoughts on the gift, such as "this is what I specially selected for you".

When giving gifts, the words should be consistent with the purpose of giving gifts, such as "Happy Birthday to you" when giving birthday gifts, "happy new year to you" when giving wedding gifts, and "Happy New Year" when giving new year gifts.

Of course, it's not appropriate to say "it's a very valuable thing" in an almost proud tone when giving away. When introducing the gift, we should emphasize the favor and affection to the recipient, not the actual value of the gift. Otherwise, it will fall to the point of valuing propriety over righteousness, and even make the other party feel that you are showing off. In this way, even if the other party accepts your gift, they will not be happy to do business for you.

Some people visit each other's home and don't think of the gift until they are about to leave. When they take out the gift at the door, the recipient refuses to accept it because of humility and politeness. At this time, they are in a dilemma.

The way to avoid this situation is: go into the door and offer gifts after a few greetings, so that there will be no embarrassing situation of not accepting gifts because of the other party's politeness. If you miss the opportunity to give a gift at the door, you might as well wait until you sit down and give it to the recipient when he is pouring tea. At this time, not only will not interrupt the original conversation, but also can add some topics, the conversation into the atmosphere.

Chinese PinYin : Cheng Shang Li Wu Shi Shuo Yi Ju De Ti De Hua