When a person is heard by the parties, it is better to turn from contradiction to self(bei hou shuo ren bei dang shi ren ting dao shi bu fang mao dun zhuan xiang zhen dui zi ji )

If you say what you should say and what you should not, and then you find that the party is behind you, you should quickly take measures to remedy and minimize the "loss". At this time, you can act as if nothing had happened, point the spearhead in the words at yourself, and try your best to recover the influence of the embarrassing situation. For example, you can say something like this: That being said, it would be even worse if it were on me. To be honest, to be fair, I admire him. If I'm allowed to do it, I'm afraid I don't have the courage to accept it... " Between people, the most difficult thing is to understand, the most valuable thing is to stand in the position of others, for the consideration and consideration of others. Your reasonable words are very human. How can you keep the listeners from feeling?

Chinese PinYin : Bei Hou Shuo Ren Bei Dang Shi Ren Ting Dao Shi Bu Fang Mao Dun Zhuan Xiang Zhen Dui Zi Ji